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Created by Gary Lavery on April 26th, 2017
WHAT IS IT THAT stands between you and having what you want? - Is it luck? - Do you need a lucky break? - Is success simply a matter of being in the right place at the right time or is it a case of, it isn't what you know, its who you know?
Let me tell you right now that none of these or true. Success is not about getting lucky, and failure is not about being unlucky. I believe it is all about you making the things happen that need to happen.
I once came across a story about a world famous golfer called Gary Player. Player was preparing for a tournament by practising his bunker shots when he was approached by an arrogant millionaire. The millionaire challenged Player to hole one of his next three shots. Player holed not one but two of the next three. The millionaire said "that is just pure luck man" from which Player answered "Maybe, but you know sir, the harder I practice, the luckier I get."
But the difference that makes the difference is ...
So, the only thing that stands in your way ... is YOU ... nothing else, absolutely nothing.
When you scratch the surface of High achievers, you will find the same collection of anxieties, fears, insecurities and self doubt that the rest of us experience too on a daily basis. High achievers don't let negative thoughts win.
High achievers think that, when something goes wrong, its only 10% related to something which has happened and 90% is down to attitude. They accept responsibility and believe that they have the power to sort it out. They spend their time thinking how to get things right ... whilst Low achievers are still busy looking for excuses and reasons.
Personally I am obsessed with what I do. My passion has invited me into the world of sport, where I have connected with many leading performers. My curiosity allows me to learn from these people and learn more about mental strength, and how they cope under pressure and extreme circumstances. Along this route, I have came across some superb motivational signs too, aimed toward the attitude and focus upon these performers:
"Excuses are for losers. Those who take responsibility for their actions are the real winners in life."
"Winners meet life's challenges head on, knowing there are no guarantees and give all they have got."
"Take control of your life. Dare to dream and take risks - Just be complete with YOU."
If truth be told, nobody owes you a living, do they? - What you achieve or fail to achieve in your life is solely down to what you choose to do or fail to do. Everyone has problems and obstacles to overcome but that to is related to each individual. Nothing is carved in stone; you can change anything in your life if you really want it badly.
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